Cherish the best times....

The best time in life is a birth right to everyone, and its grieving if an individual deprieve himself from cherishing it.A moment that brings on life in you, a time that makes you smile as well as cry and people who may not be with you in your long race but actually inspires you deep down are the most priceless belonging in your life.We move ahead in life, meeting new people, struggling with new adjustments but its just the thought that counts of past.The way you are in present is moulded by your past and influenced by people you left back.
We have so many friends standing by us but how many actually stands by you.You say the other person is your best buddy but is it the same reciprocated by the person.We cannot always demand a simile colloquy as ours, and likewise cannot call a person boorish just because he or she dont think the way you do.I have lots of friends and i talk to them, freak with them not because i expect them to be with me all life long, thats almost practically impossible, but its because of the golden memories that i have encapsulated in my mind that will remind me life is so beautiful.To realise the art of life, you just need to pick up the rhythm and step out of the shell, soon mesmerised with the sorcery of creation.Sometimes you yorself is enough to bring alacrity in your life.So many times i have been to myself, sipping a cup of coffe and jotting down few lines of anything.The solitude is also immensely charismatic and its than when i learnt it is not hard to decipher happiness.And than on there was no looking back, no regrets cause everything happened for a reason and the reason is pulling up now as my inspiration to visualise things in optimistic way.In company or alone, i have always learnt to cherish the best times of life recreating a moment forever, and whenever i want i can just close my eyes and see the moment again, to live within it

Dont be scared to accept yourself

Every human in universe brings out the best or least try to, with the same blood and flesh combination.No one is superior but the deeds they do, the dare to step forward brings out the real you.As a child i was a muddled up character building up chimerical fantasies, trying to do every possible thing on earth.Yes, I played with my choices,in a very layman language stepped way too fast to decide on things.I wanted something more justified in my life but its the moment of time that bent things.But today when i look back, I don`t regret on my wrong choices, cause everything has happened for a reason giving me inspiration to march forward and reach my laurels.Its quite obvious, we ourselves are most complex and till yesteryear perhaps i would raise my hand saying, I don`t understand myself but today there is substantial shift in ideas and i understand myself better.

                                           People pretend to be a different character sometimes.But thats a bad idea for life and equivalent to a split personality disoreder.Just be chaste and raw, cause your vegenance will definately be loved by someone, and that someone should be worthy of your respect.I am a girl, and i stand tall being a girl in this so considered male chauvinist world.I dont have to be you or some other person to rise up, rather i would call it underestimation.Dont be scared to flaunt yourself to the world, cause at the end of time people will remember you by your originality.Love yourself, respect yourself and be with yourself cause you yourself is your biggest strength.upasana.blogspot.com